Natural spontaneity aside, the idea of the appearance of spontaneity looms large in my mind.  It’s almost impossible to plot and scheme spontaneity in situations when it’s the appearance of spontaneity that works most to your advantage when everyone is all cell phoned up.  I have a feeling you know what I mean and so I won’t bother going into hypotheticals and examples here unless you have no idea what I’m talking about.

I am addressing your question from a different angle.  Of course, serendipity and spontaneity exist.  What I’m talking about is the need to sometimes create the illusion to advance one’s own ends and achieve the delights one seeks.  Yes, I sound incredibly manipulative, but i know you will not judge me.